(I expect the same is true for just about everybody if they are completely honest about "favourites" in anything. The Leafs are my favourite sports team, and they're far from being good - but I've got so much emotion invested in them... My favourite meal of all time was a hand-ripped turkey, swiss, and tomato sandwich - eaten with my two older daughters in wet suits on a surf board we had just pulled up onto the sand on a chilly Vancouver Island beach in the late summer with the sun peeking out from the clouds for the first time that day. In this latter context, if I had watched "The Master of Disguise" on that surfboard I expect I'd be identifying it as a favourite movie. Maybe not.)
So with all that said, and in case you still care, here are some favourites. I'd be interested in yours, but more interested in the context that made them your favourites:
- Heaven Can Wait. I first saw it when I was in the throes of my first childhood crush.
- Shrek. Loved it for all the right reasons AND it was cemented as a favourite when I saw it for the second time on a projected screen in Italy with my wife and (then little) two older daughters.
- Toy Story 3. Saw it around the time my older daughter was just packing up for her first year of University. Loved it and hated it. Toy Story 2 was my "birthday movie" with my wife and daughters during a really memorable stay in downtown Toronto that included an indoor/outdoor winter swim at the Sheraton. Any one of the three movies makes me very sentimental.
- Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. Don't exactly remember the context, so I'll just chalk it up to Gene Wilder (if you pressed me to name my #1 all time favourite actor, it would have to be him, mainly for his performance in this film).
- Love Actually. I love good (and I emphasize good) romantic comedies - Keeping the Faith, Serendipity, Say Anything. This one stands out because of Emma Thompson and Alan Rickman.
- The Usual Suspects. No explanation required. Context irrelevant.
- Silence of the Lambs. Best book adaptation ever, and I loved the book.
- Lord of the Rings. Best book adaptation ever, and I loved the book.
- Rat Race. Saw it in the theatre with my parents as an adult. I have never seen any person laugh as uncontrollably as my Dad did during that movie. Actually, that's not true. On a red-eye to England, my Dad and I were both watching "Just for Laughs, Gags". We were both exhausted and giddy. The cabin was (otherwise) silent. And my Dad put on the greatest display of uncontrollable laughter ever. But we're talking about movies, not tv.
- 2001, A Space Odyssey. In the early Seventies I was in a hippie-designed and run "open concept" school. Students had a fully equipped tv studio at their disposal. We produced some sort of tv show about 2001. I never understood the movie, but my Dad always promised to explain it to me when I was older. I'm pretty sure he didn't get it either.
- Titanic. I think going back to childhood, the story of the Titanic (and that song) was probably my first introduction to death and tragedy. The movie was everything my childhood imagination had conjoured up.
- Mr. Smith Goes to Washington. Having written my final exam in my final year of University, I sat alone in my (then empty) rental house and had a really good cry. Anything by Frank Capra would have done that to me that night.
- Starman. First movie-date with my then future wife.
I read your blog en route home, and I've been thinking about the answer off-and-on ever since. It's made me realize there's something fundamentally different about how our temperaments have evolved. Watch:
ReplyDeleteIn chronological order: Mary Poppins. My first movie ever. Parents took me out of religious school early to see it. In hindsight, I don't even know if that means I missed some of religious school (unlikely), or that we just didn't stay afterward as Dad talked to people (more likely), but I will forever associate it with getting out of school.
Blazing Saddles. Drive-in movie; Dad laughing hysterically. Beginning of my life-long crush on Gene Wilder - maybe we're not so different after all.
Sleuth. My first date movie. In my mind, it will always be a classic, although it's hard to get surprised the second time.
Land Before Time. This isn't really a favourite, but I do still have practically every line memorized, thanks to it being the first video Adam owned, so I have a definite fondness for it.
Here's where it get weird, though:
Purple Rose of Cairo. I think I watched this so many times that I actually overdosed. Something spoke to me very powerfully at a point in my life when things were powerfully out of whack.
Magnolia. Don't ask me why I find this movie full of dysfunction, suffering, alienation and death so life-affirming. But it is. The context is kind of hidden to me (yes, I got to know and love it long before my cancer dianosis), but there must be some context that makes such a despressing move uplifting for me.
Magnolia's interesting...I loved it too. But somehow it's in another category with movies like American Beauty, Mulholland Drive, and others that drive you to find essays about them because you know you just watched something significant. Land Before Time is like that too.
DeleteI don't remember much about Purple Rose of Cairo. I'll have to watch it again.
My list includes Willy Wonka, ET and all the Toy Stories. Blazing Saddles is up there too.
DeleteMore that come to mind:
Bonny and Clyde
Goldfinger
The Graduate
Goodfellas
The Godfather
Casino
Raging Bull
Apocalypse Now
Deerhunter
Deliverance
Dog Day Afternoon
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
Gladiator
Kramer vs Kramer
The Empire Strikes Back
Back To The Future
Tootsie
Ordinary People
Wizard of Oz
Big
Young Frankenstein
Jaws
The Sting
Schindler's List
Die Hard
The King of Comedy
Taps
The Exorcist
Scarface
Heaven Can Wait
Daniel
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
The Right Stuff
Das Boot
My Left Foot
Terms of Endearment
Spinal Tap
Missing
Midnight Express
A Clockwork Orange
Marathon Man
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Sleeper
Annie Hall
Bananas
Husbands and Wives
Apollo 13
Blow
Manhattan
Cinderella Man
Adaptation
Shawshank Redemption
Being John Malkovich
Resevoir Dogs
Boogie Nights
Austin Powers International Man of Mystery (the first one)
War of the Worlds
There Will Be Blood
Twelve Angry Men
The Three Burials of Melquiades Estrada
The Ten Commandments
Terminator
Total Recall
Letters From Iwo Jima
Gladiator
Inglourious Basterds
Entangled
Wow. That's a lot of movies to "come to mind". I'm impressed. There are definitely a few on the list that I'd probably include in mine as well. And some I've never even heard of (e.g. Daniel).
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